Community Guidelines
Building a safe, respectful community for adults
More To Us is an adult dating platform where consenting adults can connect freely. These guidelines help create a safe, respectful environment for everyone. Violations may result in warnings, temporary suspensions, or permanent bans.
💚Be Respectful
Treat every member with dignity and respect:
- Consent is essential. Always respect boundaries. "No" means no.
- No harassment. Don't send unwanted messages after being rejected.
- No discrimination. Discrimination based on race, ethnicity, religion, gender, or sexual orientation is not tolerated.
- Be kind. Disagree respectfully. Personal attacks are never acceptable.
📸Photo Guidelines
Public Profile Photos
Your main profile photo should:
- Clearly show your face
- Be a recent photo (within the last year)
- Not contain explicit nudity
- Not include other people without their consent
Private/Adult Photos
Adult content is permitted in private albums with these rules:
- Must feature only you (or your partner for couple accounts)
- Must depict consenting adults
- No commercial pornography
- No extreme or illegal content
Strictly Prohibited
- Any imagery involving minors
- Non-consensual intimate imagery
- Violence, gore, or extreme content
- Photos that aren't of you (catfishing)
💬Messaging Etiquette
Good communication creates better connections:
- Read profiles first. Show you've taken the time to learn about them.
- Start respectfully. Build rapport before diving into explicit conversation.
- Accept rejection gracefully. Not everyone will be interested - that's okay.
- Don't spam. If they haven't responded, don't send multiple follow-ups.
- No unsolicited explicit content. Always ask before sending intimate photos.
🚫Zero Tolerance
The following will result in immediate permanent ban:
- Underage users. You must be 18+ to use this platform.
- Child exploitation material. We report to authorities.
- Human trafficking or prostitution. We cooperate with law enforcement.
- Threats of violence. Any threats will be reported to police.
- Doxxing. Sharing someone's private information.
- Extortion or blackmail. Threatening to share intimate content.
✅Profile Authenticity
Be genuine and honest:
- Be yourself. Use your real photos and accurate information.
- One account per person/couple. Creating multiple accounts is not allowed.
- No impersonation. Don't pretend to be someone you're not.
- Get verified. Photo verification builds trust with other members.
💰No Commercial Activity
This is a dating platform, not a marketplace:
- No soliciting money or financial arrangements
- No promoting paid services (escorting, cam sites, etc.)
- No scams, spam, or promotional content
- No pyramid schemes or "business opportunities"
🛡️Stay Safe
Your safety is important to us:
- Protect your privacy. Don't share personal details (address, workplace) too quickly.
- Video chat first. Consider a video call before meeting in person.
- Meet in public. Always meet first in a public place.
- Tell someone. Let a friend know your plans when meeting someone new.
- Trust your instincts. If something feels wrong, it probably is.
- Report concerns. Use the report button if you encounter suspicious behaviour.
🚨Reporting & Enforcement
Help us keep the community safe:
- Report violations. Use the report button on any profile or message.
- Block users. You can block anyone who makes you uncomfortable.
- We investigate all reports. Reports are confidential and reviewed within 24-48 hours.
Consequences
- Warning: First minor offence
- Temporary suspension: Repeated violations or moderate offences
- Permanent ban: Serious violations or continued misconduct
Questions or Concerns?
If you have questions about these guidelines or need to report something that requires immediate attention, contact us at [email protected]