Community Guidelines

Building a safe, respectful community for adults

More To Us is an adult dating platform where consenting adults can connect freely. These guidelines help create a safe, respectful environment for everyone. Violations may result in warnings, temporary suspensions, or permanent bans.

💚Be Respectful

Treat every member with dignity and respect:

  • Consent is essential. Always respect boundaries. "No" means no.
  • No harassment. Don't send unwanted messages after being rejected.
  • No discrimination. Discrimination based on race, ethnicity, religion, gender, or sexual orientation is not tolerated.
  • Be kind. Disagree respectfully. Personal attacks are never acceptable.

📸Photo Guidelines

Public Profile Photos

Your main profile photo should:

  • Clearly show your face
  • Be a recent photo (within the last year)
  • Not contain explicit nudity
  • Not include other people without their consent

Private/Adult Photos

Adult content is permitted in private albums with these rules:

  • Must feature only you (or your partner for couple accounts)
  • Must depict consenting adults
  • No commercial pornography
  • No extreme or illegal content

Strictly Prohibited

  • Any imagery involving minors
  • Non-consensual intimate imagery
  • Violence, gore, or extreme content
  • Photos that aren't of you (catfishing)

💬Messaging Etiquette

Good communication creates better connections:

  • Read profiles first. Show you've taken the time to learn about them.
  • Start respectfully. Build rapport before diving into explicit conversation.
  • Accept rejection gracefully. Not everyone will be interested - that's okay.
  • Don't spam. If they haven't responded, don't send multiple follow-ups.
  • No unsolicited explicit content. Always ask before sending intimate photos.

🚫Zero Tolerance

The following will result in immediate permanent ban:

  • Underage users. You must be 18+ to use this platform.
  • Child exploitation material. We report to authorities.
  • Human trafficking or prostitution. We cooperate with law enforcement.
  • Threats of violence. Any threats will be reported to police.
  • Doxxing. Sharing someone's private information.
  • Extortion or blackmail. Threatening to share intimate content.

✅Profile Authenticity

Be genuine and honest:

  • Be yourself. Use your real photos and accurate information.
  • One account per person/couple. Creating multiple accounts is not allowed.
  • No impersonation. Don't pretend to be someone you're not.
  • Get verified. Photo verification builds trust with other members.

💰No Commercial Activity

This is a dating platform, not a marketplace:

  • No soliciting money or financial arrangements
  • No promoting paid services (escorting, cam sites, etc.)
  • No scams, spam, or promotional content
  • No pyramid schemes or "business opportunities"

🛡️Stay Safe

Your safety is important to us:

  • Protect your privacy. Don't share personal details (address, workplace) too quickly.
  • Video chat first. Consider a video call before meeting in person.
  • Meet in public. Always meet first in a public place.
  • Tell someone. Let a friend know your plans when meeting someone new.
  • Trust your instincts. If something feels wrong, it probably is.
  • Report concerns. Use the report button if you encounter suspicious behaviour.

🚨Reporting & Enforcement

Help us keep the community safe:

  • Report violations. Use the report button on any profile or message.
  • Block users. You can block anyone who makes you uncomfortable.
  • We investigate all reports. Reports are confidential and reviewed within 24-48 hours.

Consequences

  • Warning: First minor offence
  • Temporary suspension: Repeated violations or moderate offences
  • Permanent ban: Serious violations or continued misconduct

Questions or Concerns?

If you have questions about these guidelines or need to report something that requires immediate attention, contact us at [email protected]